What follows is a step by step to get rid of a negative, limiting beliefs so you can move forward and leave behind those beliefs!
Step 1) Be clear what you want to believe
You have a clear target, it suffices to have the conviction that the goal is possible. Despite the old quote that says: "The masses need to see, believe this. Whereas the wise man thinks so expect to see, there are cases where we must find a way to strengthen our system of beliefs and whenhappens, we must first apply the blur.
"Energy flows where attention goes" is a big word that describes one of the foundations of firming on the buffet. Once you are able to concentrate or focus on what you believe is more likely to achieve the desired results.
An example of this is when you bike and you go through a narrow gap between, say, a tree and a fence and you start thinking, 'I will strike the tree, if I'm not careful. "Then, as you get closer to the thoughtbecomes more real and how it makes the bike seem magnetized to the tree and as you can try, and head of the tree, apparently unable to correct the course.
It is as if the bike knows where it will actually do it because your mind controls your body and your mind focuses on a collision with the tree. Well, guess what happens? Wood and metal come together exactly as planned in your head to prove that stress directly supported by the conviction gets results.
Step 2) YourControl beliefs
Your beliefs are your take on reality or should I say what I perceive as real (and I think that is it not?) And treats them as if they were real! These beliefs or whether we should or not. What we have we will prosecute those who do not prevent us stuck where we are.
The reason they hold our current perception of the world, because we have a filter to exclude anything that disagrees with her, e. g. the thought or belief desired"I earn enough to buy a new house that I" met "Do not be silly, you can not win that much! What could you do to earn enough money for this kind of place? Ridiculous, forget, do not figure the stupid!. By this filtering we neglect any information that would help.
The good news is that beliefs can change. Do you know someone who has stood in support of a political party and go to another, or religion has changed, or football teams, becausetheir beliefs have changed? It can be as simple as a paper to consider some of them all, but after reading an opinion writer in another document that you believe deeply in the point that was made and came to the conclusion that they are Aligned with this theory and after you've never read the old card again.
You may have always believed strongly in the justice system, however, when a family member is unjustly arrested for something that has your faith in the systemchange overnight.
I suggest that the conduct of the business to a audit of faith! Firstly you can not fit your beliefs as true or false or right or wrong, but try to serve me, or I do not need or that are useful or not useful. Insert a line in the middle of a piece of paper and put the belief that there is in the left column. When you have done against these beliefs in the right column. If you have a goal to focus the two sets of concepts in relation to thistarget.
You might think how difficult it is to achieve your goal, the size of the lens is, as you are able, as they have failed in the past, what people tell you. Just write how many in each column, as you can. When you're done, emphasizing the belief that you feel is the most useless and is the biggest obstacle.
Step 3 The big question "What if?
We can be clever enough to ask questions! However, we may be able to ask questions that lead us to thinkenterprise is fraught with dangers and uncertainties. This type of questioning begins with "What If". "What happens if I pursue my goal and I can not? Everyone knows that I failed and I can not bear the thought of that. "What Ifs can stop us dead before we start, if we let them.
The trick is to compile a list of positive alternatives "What If" questions that will challenge the negative and open mind to new possibilities. It is important that as you ask these questions is whetherwith curiosity aroused and in a tone that supports the state. When you begin to question the negative positive is that you will notice a slight change in your beliefs and more positive alternatives are presented over the gap will be.
Take the belief that enhanced and come with many questions, as an alternative positive. E. g. If your faith is pointless and unwinnable £ 50.00, you can try to counter with "And if it is easier than I thought? "And ifis only the first step that is difficult and the rest is fairly easy? And so when I look I really almost all the resources I need? What if it's like the time I thought it would be difficult and, indeed, proved relatively easy? "
Step 4 Prepare yourself for a debate
After applying the first three steps are likely to experience changes in your convictions and you will come to the realization that there is a positive alternative to the negative option.We build now evidence to support the new positive beliefs identified in your "What If" questions.
In this exercise, as well as in a normal debate is to present the case more convincing (as if you were to defend themselves in a process) for your new positive beliefs. Imagine a judge or judges in front of you and I started to convince them that your position is the highest merit and truth. Use any method you deem necessary to put on a convincingargument.
You can exercise with friends, if they are the ones who are doing well with it, but it's something that has probably not alone. Passion rather than challenge the better the results.
Now try this. Take your favorite positive "What If" question and put a line in the "What If" at the beginning and add, because at the end. If you're original question was "What if this is easier than I thought?" now becomes "It's easier than Ithought because ....." and completed the statement with more evidence to support possible. Use past performance, creative thinking, education, life events or the environment to help you. They are that a guide can be anything you want.
Step 5 Believe, display, create
Now you can see your perceptions more credible is the time to start programming in conversion testing experience. You can return to what you're interested in sports almost alland find evidence that top performers practiced visualization. They first tried the mental leap, swing, etc. race, then made for real.
The same muscles are activated at the display as they are activated during the event, because the brain can not distinguish between what is real and what is believed to be true. It takes practice, but if you can do each day for taking the time to consult your positive beliefs and you can start to create a stronger neurotheir association with these beliefs that eventually become beliefs. This technique is very powerful and a time to practice, just to spend.
For example, the first time he decided to drive a car you want excitement and the thought of how it would be great and maybe even made up and down the court or a parking lot where he there was none? Then, when it was time to go on the road and started thinking about all the complex things we had to do, like driving, using the clutchand change gears at the same time.
Just as they were confident that the instructor told you that you put in your review. Now, a new level of negative beliefs began to emerge. "I'm not ready, a few more lessons, is the Hill home, which is the problem, I bet you did not know the area where we test?
However at the end (if not the first time) has passed and now you drive without even thinking that it is your faith in your abilities.
Thus began thewith a wish or desire (I drive) went through a period where you had to continue to reinforce your belief that you learn to drive (I'll do if you kill me,) you have provided yourself with the test that can be (way) and you have given much thought to your desire (display) and finally he was convinced he could do or not.
Step 6 to obtain evidence
The last part of this system is going about there armed with your beliefs and adopt newactions are underway to allow an experiment evidence "that your new beliefs are true. Think about it, your beliefs are written on a table without the legs of the table (I think), at best, fragile. However, the legs more (positive references to your faith), we must support the picture becomes more stable and ultimately unshakeable.
In summary
1) Be clear what you want to believe (and not)
2) execute control beliefs. List of all negativebeliefs in conflict with the positive aspects.
3) Go "if both negative and positive.
4) a discussion. Put your best case for the future.
5) To dive deeply into your new beliefs.
6) Go ahead and try as you're right
It takes as much effort and time to think negatively, as to think positive, except that the first takes you down, stifles creativity, you do not need and does nothing for your happiness, present or future and well-being. Yourchoice!
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